The Rose Bendable Dildo is a non-realistic dildo in its appearance. While its general shape is phallic it has a flower head, and vines and leaves wrapped around the shaft. It makes me think of a fae creature, honestly. It is made of 100% body safe silicone externally, and has a rod inside to allow you to shape and bend it. I do not know what the rod is made of exactly, but I assume metal. Your body won’t be making contact with the rod as it’s fully encased in the silicone of the dildo.
Bendable dildos are a good concept, because ideally you can shape them based on your day-to-day preferences, giving you more bang for your buck. One day you may want targeted G-spot stimulation, and the next you may want something that fills a hole without targeting specific spots.
Specs
Crassie offers the Rose Bendable Dildo in two sizes, a small, and a large. I own the large, which is 6.7 inches long total, with 6.3 of those inches being insertable. It has an average diameter of 1.34 inches, and the suction cup base is 2.6 inches across. The small version is 5.9 inches total length, 5.5 inches insertable, an average diameter of 1.18 inches, and the suction cup base is 2.6 inches across.
The Rose Bendable Dildo from Crassie can be bent into a steep hook, a gentle curve, an S-shape, and other variances between these shapes. The internal rod is shapeable at any spot so you can bend it near the head, middle, or base. Crassie did a good job with giving you options.
How Does the Bend Work?
The question now is how well does the dildo stay posed once you bend it? The Rose Bendable Dildo holds whatever shape I put it in for a few minutes, at best. My own clenching and thrusting works the dildo out of whatever shape I have contorted it into unfortunately, leaving me with a mostly straight dildo. The internal rod is on the more flexible side so I can usually add a bit of curve back into the dildo by simply pressing it against my own vaginal walls and pressing or pulling, giving me a curved shape for a few more minutes. However, if the rod is soft enough for me to shape while it’s still inside of my vaginal canal, then it’s obviously too soft to withstand me pounding myself, or aiming for any intense pressure.
How Does the Rose Dildo Feel?
The head on the Rose Bendable Dildo is one of the highlights for me. It’s bulbous compared to the shaft, and textured, so it feels rather good rubbing across my G-spot and nudging against my cervix. My Rose Bendable Dildo is the large option, which gives me 6.3” of insertable length. This is a good length for me to be able to reach my cervix and the pockets around it, but if your cervix sits higher up this may not be enough length for you.
The Rose Bendable Dildo is extremely marshmallowy soft on the outside, just as the Crassie Dual Density Dildo, so it is not beneficial for intense pounding. It nudges against my cervix and into my fornices but it is not adept at cervical or A-spot stimulation. However, if you enjoy mild stimulation of these areas, then the Rose Bendable Dildo could be a good choice.
The thickness and length of the large Rose Bendable Dildo is fairly average. It’s just a little longer than what’s considered average length. I personally use dildos on the larger side most of the time, so the Rose Bendable Dildo is a bit smaller than I would normally reach for but it is a very versatile size, and one that I still benefit from. I can use it without the need for any warm up (beyond lube if I’m not wet enough), and use it for the entire length of my masturbation session without needing to reach for a bigger toy to finish.
Texture and Lube
The soft outer layer, combined with the texture of vines and petals also means you want to be adequately wet from your own fluids, or add a lubricant because it can start to feel rather grippy after a short while. The texture is stimulating and good as long as you’re wet enough. It’s a more subtle texture, and if I’m very wet, or have a lot of lube there are times I barely perceive it, but it does keep it from feeling as bland as a super smooth dildo. I do prefer texture over entirely smooth so the addition of these vines and leaves is very welcome to me.
As the Rose Bendable Dildo is made of silicone you should stick to water-based lubricant so you don’t ruin the finish of the dildo. If you’re going to use a hybrid or oil-based lube be sure to spot test on an area of the dildo that won’t be going into your body. Do not use silicone lubricant.
Suction Cup Base and Harness Use
The suction cup on the Rose Bendable Dildo is soft and flexible if you’re holding it in your hand, so it will occasionally fold on itself when I am using it by hand. This isn’t really an issue, I just adjust my hand as needed; it doesn’t happen so often that it’s distracting. As someone who has worsening hand issues I appreciate having a suction cup, or some form of base to grip for thrusting. It is a very strong suction cup when attached to something. I can attach the Rose Bendable Dildo to my thigh harness, strap the entire setup to a pillow and ride it as long as I want. I’ve never had the suction cup unsuction unintentionally.
As far as using the Rose Bendable Dildo in a harness I haven’t tried it out on a partner but when put into a harness and tested solo, it performed the same as the Crassie Dual Density dildo. The base holds it in place, despite the fact it’s on the thinner side and soft. I could see it potentially slipping out occasionally of harnesses that don’t have buckles around the base, or less fabric for friction grip. If your harness relies solely on a rubber or metal ring to hold the dildo in place I think the base on the Rose Bendable Dildo would be too flimsy for vigorous thrusting.
Cleaning and Storage
Cleaning the Rose Bendable Dildo requires some care, because the petals of the head will hold lube and fluids in the folds and pockets. It’s not hard, it just requires a little extra attention to detail. You can clean it with a mild soap and warm water, or sex toy cleaning wipes/spray. You can sanitize it by first washing with soap and water to remove all fluids and then by using a 10% bleach solution soak (I do 10 minutes), placing it on the top rack of your dishwasher (if it has a sanitize setting) with no detergent, or by boiling for 3 minutes.
Before storing your Crassie Rose Bendable Dildo you will want to make sure it is fully dry either by drying with a lint free cloth, or allowing it to air dry. Crassie includes a silky pink bag to make storage and travel easier.
If you’d like to get your very own Rose Bendable Dildo you can pick one up here. You can get 10% off your entire order with my discount code “somequeer”.
*This post was sponsored by Crassie. All writing and opinions are my own. Affiliate links are used throughout post.
